Reflections on Improving the State of the World

I couldn't help taking a childish delight in witnessing people, from all over the world, coming together to talk about how they can improve the state of the world. Here's Moshe and Mohammed, Enrique and Navanethem, Cho Yoon-Sun and Olafur, sharing platforms with Elif, Shirin and Aliko, engaging in debate and exchanging ideas. 

This is my second World Economic Forum meeting in Davos and I am energised and inspired by the discussions which I have been fortunate to attend. It's not perfect - only 15% of the speakers are women and 'global' discussion is dominated by the US and Europe. But today I listened to Al Gore talking about global change, Lewis Pugh sharing insights about extreme swimming, and the new Iranian president's vision for his country. Writers and artists debated identity and cultural heritage and Young Global Leaders (under the age of 40) discussed creative solutions to rebuilding nations. 

Imagine that we could sit together like this in our country and listen to each other and share our experiences. After 20 years of democracy, I am deeply saddened by the level of debate in our country. It seems that we are so quick to draw lines to divide and polarise our society. It's always 'us' or 'them' and if you are not with 'us', you must be with 'them'.

Charter for Compassion shared this quote, by Martin Luther King Jnr earlier this week:

“People fail to get along because they fear each other; they fear each other because they don't know each other; they don't know each other because they have not communicated with each other.”

The only way we are going to heal the rifts in our historically divided society, is to start communicating with each other. Let's take time to listen to each other's stories. We have a wealth of experience which, collectively, can build a strong and stable nation. 

The Golden Rule

I am saddened and a little troubled by the recent suicide of someone we knew. While we were not close friends, our families have many connections through school, university and business. We also live in the same neighbourhood, a few roads from each other. I am disturbed by the fact that we could be connected to each other, live alongside each other and yet not be able to pick up the deep distress that would lead someone to take their own life.

There are always so many questions for the people left behind and always some guilt about whether we could have done something to help prevent the death. So many people attended the funeral service, which made me wonder why he could not find at least one of us to talk to. 

Technology has made us so available to each other all the time, and yet are we really connected to each other?  We actually don’t even need to talk to each other – we SMS, BBM, send emails from our phones and have information at our fingertips. We need to engage with each other with more than social media, to connect on a personal level. We all have a need to belong to a group, whether it is a family bond, or a group of people with a common purpose or a spiritual group like a church. We need to learn to live with one another, to care for each other and be cared for.

In her book, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life, Karen Armstrong asserts that compassion is a true test of spirituality. We are urged to have concern for everyone, “to treat others as you would wish to be treated yourself”. Compassion is common to all faiths. All religions have their own version of The Golden Rule. 

“As we develop our compassionate mind, we should feel an increasing sense of responsibility for the suffering of others and form a resolve to do everything we can to free them from their pain”, she says.

I think tragic events occur to help put us on the right path. Let’s take time to connect, to take responsibility for each other, to care.

Read more about Karen Armstrong by clicking here Charter for Compassion
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